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Thirty-Six Hours from Huntington to Montauk

The ideal 2022 Long Island escape did not require leaving the island. A carefully paced route from Huntington to Montauk delivered harbor light, serious lunch, a proper hotel bar and enough distance from routine to feel genuinely elsewhere. The best weekends left space for weather, appetite and the kind of detour no itinerary can improve.

BY FRED · May 7, 2022
The temptation with a Long Island road trip is to overplan it. In 2022, the better approach was a thirty-six-hour edit: fewer stops, later checkouts and enough empty time to let the island change character as the road moved east. Begin in Huntington with coffee and a walk near the harbor before traffic turns the morning into negotiation. Leave before lunch and resist unnecessary detours. The purpose is not to collect towns; it is to feel the transition from suburban rhythm to fields, villages and open sky. Lunch should happen somewhere with a real sense of place. Order local seafood, vegetables and one bottle that makes the afternoon less efficient. Continue east only after the table has finished its work. Arrive at the hotel with enough daylight to see the water and enough evening left to enjoy the bar. The night needs one destination, not four. A strong dinner, a walk, perhaps music if it appears naturally. The next morning belongs to wind, coffee and a beach before the day becomes public. Depart after lunch, when the westbound drive feels reflective rather than punitive. Packing should support the same restraint. One bag, layers for wind and shoes capable of both town and beach keep the trip mobile. The car should carry water, a blanket and very little else. Every additional object becomes another decision at departure. The best short escape feels light because logistics have been reduced before the engine starts, leaving attention available for the road and the people in it. The island becomes an escape when the schedule stops trying to conquer it. Thirty-six hours were enough in 2022 because the route was not about distance. It was about editing routine, allowing Long Island to reveal several versions of itself before returning home.

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